True Relationship is Healthy

‘Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good’.  When someone expect you to react in harsh manner, you can respond by saying God bless you- they will not know what to say…..

When you’re being accused or taken for granted and people take your meekness for weakness, trying to make you feel bad- considering what they are throwing at you … It’s the enemy at work, trying to distort your peace of mind.

Defeat him and say- Satan you’re a liar in Jesus name, the blood of Jesus rebuke you.

We are living in a world with selfish people, when they can’t get their own way, they allow Satan influences to bring conflicts to their relationship with others.

Some people may have had some bad experiences in their early years and they bring those things into their adulthood and into the lives of others.

Before you know it, these actions can cause good relationships to become distant. The negative effects could bring harm than good.

You may even experience accusations that you can’t seem to understand and you may wonder to yourself, ‘where in God’s name did this come from’? especially if it’s from the person instigating the problem.

You thought you have been having a fairly good relationship, the last time you checked with the individual, but they sneaky about you and let it appear as if you have done them wrongly. That’s the hardest part to work out.

It now appears, they are using others to side with them, at times those persons are vulnerable.

People only do that because they have their own motives, maybe selfish … it’s wrong!

God is just and righteous in judgement. He pays every man according to their works, so you and I don’t have to scheme up anything to make people lives hell!

So, let us therefore

Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.

Romans 12:21 KJV

Be Bless

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Welcome to a new month

Now we have ended our journey of January.

Let’s pause or awhile and reflect on the good things that happened on our journey to -here.

Forget for now, the ugly things, misdemeanours that may have come your way or to someone close to you …. let us give God thanks for enabling us to enter into a new month.

May the presence of God, go before you this month of February. May He protect you from harm and evil. May you be adjusted to God promptings today and always, whether it shows up as a gentle tug or a strong conviction.

May He lead you besides quiet waters; and may His rod and staff comfort you this month and always. May His goodness and mercy be yours today and forever. In Jesus Mighty Name, Amen.

This month You can choose to be unforgiving, bitter or miserable – or you can choose to forgive, be rational and work through your challenges with peace.

The Mirror today 1/2/19, says- Met Office warns of ‘risk to life’ and Britain shuts early as snowfall hits….  Despite this forecast, let us declare a Very Good Day, a blessed Month.

Surely, if we are honest and true to ourselves, even by our actions, God will surely come through for us.

Be Bless

 

It is still Jesus 

Let me encourage you and myself today because – it is still Jesus.

In your lonesomeness – it is Jesus, when you feel no one cares – it is still Jesus.
When your friends are not around – still Jesus.
When there is no money in your pocket – it’s still Jesus.
When there’s not enough food on your table- still Jesus.
In our sorrow – it’s still Jesus, in pain – it’s still Jesus.

Don’t be angry, don’t be Grievous when things are going wrong, nor go in despair. Don’t go in self-pity either even when it seems your friends are all gone – because it’s still Jesus.
When you want to make the right decisions and don’t know which way to go – it’s still Jesus.

Let us just remember to have our loved ones, families, our communities, even our enemies in our thoughts and prayers.

We are living in an era where every man for themselves, or life has become so busy it’s hard to catch up, people are faced with so many problems and difficulties, through it all – it is still Jesus.

God truly bless the who can forget about them-self and can sacrifice a few minutes with someone else – all because of Jesus.

Why it’s still Jesus? He’s always there when no one else can be found.

God bless you richly!

Be Bless

Don’t Let Situations Determine Your Life

 

The devil doesn’t want God’s people to be happy’; he wants people to be unhappy, unhealthy and miserable, don’t give him the opportunity to do that to you, he’s done that for years to a lot of us but God stepped in for individuals like me and I took the challenge!

Don’t let him rob you of your happiness.

Whatever is worrying you, if you feel you can’t share it with anyone … tell Jesus. He is a friend like no other!

 

Sometimes it is our pride that hurts rather than the situation.

When my son passed, I was in turmoil thinking about what people think, but it was really by trusting God I learned not to think too much about people and what’s going on in people’s minds. 

 

No matter what goes on in life, whether it has to do with you, me or someone else, people will talk. They will speak good and bad, you and I have no control over the talkers, so concentrate on how to overcome your circumstances.

If you spend time thinking what people are thinking, especially if you’re a role model in your family, your workplace or community … it will drain your patience and strength.

 

No one is exempt from awful circumstances happening to us or a family member, even our children.

When you have done your best or feel you have played a positive role in some way, be encouraged. 

We can never get it right all the time.

 

We learn from our mistakes and move on to positive thinking and understanding, to continue our journey with our family members who are most important.

Don’t let negative things / thoughts get in your way of happiness, life is too short and so you have to leave negative things and people behind.

 

Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

Proverbs 3:5-6 KJV

 

Be Bless

There Is a Better Way

There’s a way that seems right, but is it really?
Often times people choose the path that appears to be the right way.
For example, banks offer loans and you have the loan sharks. Say John Blog is faced with a debt and he has tried everything you can ever imagine and got a in panic, anxiety, or frustration – it really doesn’t help the situation. Not then, not ever.
There are times when so many things are going on around you and in your own life as well.
With so many different things and difficulties you face, it can be quite challenging … you may wear a smile most of the time, because you don’t allow yourself to be in self pity and often times you get misjudged by what you say, what you do?
Life can be very difficult at times, because us humans are so hard to understand each other.
There are the simple things in life that makes a relationship works, one of it is called – understanding.
When we understand each other or try to understand each other, then it’s a new ball game.
Simple conversations can cause confusion, all because the other party misinterpreted what was said.
Before you and I misjudge, for instance, a conversation, you and I should be brave enough to seek clarity from the other party – you would be so surprise!!
Sometimes, the next person has been quite busy or going through something you don’t know about and may not be able to put across what they intended to say – your way. Don’t allow the first thing that comes from within you to tarnish the reputation of another person, you may get it straight back to you!!
Judge not, that ye be not judged.
For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
Matthew 7:1-2 KJV

Be Bless

To Achieve – Put God First

Sometimes we suffer because of lack of knowledge and understanding. Whatever we want in life, we can achieve our hearts desire by fervently pressing and working towards our goals.
First, put God as your Pilot, your Guide. You and I need to think what is more realistic to achieve before we enter into our plans, and especially business.
When God is not involved, it’s chaos and confusion.

I’m not saying there won’t be setbacks or difficulties along the way. With hard work and determination, you will triumph, there will be success- but put God first.
Forget the people who tried or tries to manipulate your good deeds, or try to steal your ideas for their own selfish gains.
God is a Rewarder of them who diligently seek Him; just keep focus on what you are doing for your life.

For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God you may receive what is promised . Hebrews 10:36 ESV.

Be Bless

God is in control…

After the night of the election with much confusion and chaos in government, the Opposition, other political parties – God is in control..
Can we not see how God is good! He shows up in such remarkable ways.
In this life we make choices and sometimes the choices come back to haunt us, if we make snap decisions, they will come back to haunt, so put God first in whatever we set out to do.
One cannot cut off their nose to spite their face!!
Again we can see that shift- nobody saw this coming – surely not the leading government, they thought they had it under control; but God knows how to upset every human plan … When the people of God pray, God delivers again.

If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. James 1:5 KJV)

Be Bless

 

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